Above all else, make sure you and everyone in your group read the Code of Conduct, the Playroom Sweetheart guide and the FAQ. These guidelines are designed to protect the wellbeing of all guests and we expect everyone to abide by them.
Be sure to wear a ridiculous costume. Dressing-up puts the emphasis on imagination and fun rather than money or designer threads. If you’re in need of ideas check our theme suggestions. Tip: bring things to give away to people you meet or come up with some “schtick” to go along with your outfit, as both will help you interact with other people.
There is never any pressure to “do” anything at the party. We recommend you come with “playfulness” in mind rather than whether you may or may not “play” with anyone. Lots of people come to the party purely to dress up, watch the cabaret and dance. If this is your first time, we recommend setting yourself some strong initial boundaries as it can help to take off the pressure and reduce expectations. Remember that there will always be another Kinky Salon in a few months!
Whether you’re coming with a friend, a group or a partner, spend some time talking with them in advance about what you hope to get out of Kinky Salon. Agree some groundrules – for example, what kinds of experiences are you looking for? How much time should you spend together or apart? How do you check in to ensure your friend is okay? How do you signal if you need their attention or want to leave? Please arrive with your PAL/s and leave with them as you are responsible for their behaviour all night.
Treat everyone with the utmost regard. Avoid remarks or behaviour that might come across as sexist, homophobic, transphobic, racist or otherwise disrespectful. Don’t assume that everyone shares the same outlook/experience or identity as you. Unlike some parties, Kinky Salon welcomes and encourages all guests to interact and play with each other whatever their gender or sexuality might be. All spaces including the toilets are equally open to all guests.
We allow all forms of kink/BDSM/fetish at Kinky Salon. We ask that kinksters only bring rope/kit that they are experienced at using. Please do not mix intoxicants with kink. Agree safewords with anyone you play with and don’t be afraid to make it clear to those around you that you are engaged in consensual kink activity.
If you see bad behaviour or an infringement of the code of conduct, don’t be afraid to mention it to the person concerned. Or in the case of a serious problem feel free to approach one of the crew, who wear red armbands throughout the night. It’s far easier for us to address a problem on the night than after the event. The approach we take is one of mediation, so we won’t “cause a scene” if you report an issue to us.
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